By Princess Joy Aideyan
There are several reasons why divorce rates are higher now than they were in the 80s and 90s, though it’s important to note that divorce rates have somewhat stabilized in recent years. Here are a few key factors contributing to the rise in divorces over time:
-
Changing Social Norms: Over time, society’s view of divorce has evolved. In previous generations, divorce was stigmatized, and people often stayed in unhappy marriages for the sake of societal expectations or religious beliefs. Today, there’s less social pressure to stay in an unfulfilling relationship, and many people feel empowered to leave a marriage if it’s not working.
-
Financial Independence of Women: Women today have greater financial independence and career opportunities compared to the 80s and 90s. This financial autonomy makes it easier for them to leave marriages that are no longer satisfying. In earlier decades, many women were financially dependent on their husbands, which often made it difficult to leave a marriage, even if it was unhealthy.
-
Changing Attitudes Toward Marriage: People today tend to prioritize personal fulfillment, self-identity, and happiness more than previous generations. If individuals feel that their needs are no longer being met in a marriage, they may be more likely to get a divorce.
-
Marriage Later in Life: While people are waiting longer to get married today, many of those who marry later in life bring with them more complex life experiences and expectations. This can lead to a mismatch of goals or values, making divorce more likely. Also, younger generations tend to delay marriage until they are more established, and by this time, they may have more developed preferences or less tolerance for dissatisfaction.
-
Easier Access to Divorce: In the past, divorce could be a lengthy, costly, and difficult process. Today, divorce laws are more streamlined and easier to navigate, especially in places where “no-fault” divorce is allowed. This has made it easier for couples to separate without needing to prove wrongdoing, lowering the barriers to ending a marriage.
-
More Transparency and Education: With the rise of the internet and greater access to information, people today are more aware of divorce and the process involved. This makes it easier for individuals to make informed decisions about their marriages, and if they feel it’s the right choice, they are more likely to proceed with divorce.
-
Pressure of Modern Life: Modern life comes with its own set of pressures, from work-life balance struggles to the influence of social media. These stressors can strain marriages and lead to dissatisfaction, which can contribute to divorce. For instance, the constant connectivity through social media can sometimes lead to misunderstandings or even infidelity.
-
Longer Life Expectancy: People are living longer, and many marriages that might have ended in the past due to death or other circumstances are now lasting much longer. This means that individuals may experience more life changes or growing apart over time, which can lead to divorce.
While divorce rates peaked in the 1980s and have generally stabilized or even declined slightly in recent years, these factors still play a significant role in why divorce remains relatively common in today’s society.
