Temi Otedola, actress and daughter of billionaire businessman Femi Otedola, has officially adopted her husband’s surname, now identifying as Temiloluwa Ajibade on social media. The move comes shortly after her high-profile wedding to Nigerian singer and entrepreneur Mr Eazi, whose real name is Oluwatosin Ajibade.
The couple, who tied the knot in a series of lavish ceremonies across Monaco, Dubai, and Iceland in 2025, have remained a hot topic both for their union and the cultural conversations surrounding it. From a Yoruba traditional wedding in Dubai to an intimate church service in Iceland, their marriage blended Nigerian heritage with global elegance.
Temi’s public choice to drop the famous “Otedola” surname reignited a nationwide debate on whether women should take their husband’s name after marriage or retain their maiden name. Supporters of her decision applauded it as a symbol of love, unity, and femininity, while critics argued it reinforced outdated notions of submission.
Adding to the conversation, Femi Otedola himself gave heartfelt but traditional advice at the Iceland reception. Addressing his daughter, he said:
“You have to succumb to the whims and caprices of your husband. He’s your husband, he’s your boss. There’s no more dad, don’t call me up. You found a great guy from a decent family, and you’re truly in love with each other. This marriage was made in heaven.”
His words, though affectionate, further deepened the debate. Some interpreted them as cultural wisdom, while others saw them as reinforcing patriarchal norms.
On social media, the reactions have been divided. Some feminists argued that changing one’s name after marriage is a colonial practice that undermines women’s independence, while others stressed that personal choice is what matters most. Comments ranged from playful jabs about “poor daughters clinging to their father’s names” to thoughtful reflections on identity, legacy, and family honor.
For many, the conversation isn’t about Temi alone—it’s about the evolving role of women in modern marriages. Should a name represent submission, unity, or personal identity? Is it simply a label, or a symbol of deeper cultural meaning?
Temi Otedola’s decision highlights the delicate balance Nigerian women often navigate between tradition, individuality, and societal expectation. And while the debate rages on, one truth stands firm: the power to choose remains at the heart of it all.
