By Tolu Adesuwa Igiehon
Society Deputy Editor
The Leap in Lifestyle
Upgrading from an iPhone XR—a device launched in 2018—to the all-new iPhone 17 Pro Max in 2025 is more than just a tech decision; it’s a lifestyle statement. For many Nigerians, this move is about more than better cameras or faster processors—it’s about status, validation, and the social perception attached to wielding the “latest iPhone.”
But with that leap comes serious risks and benefits. On the surface, the iPhone 17 Pro Max promises cutting-edge performance, AI-powered features, and futuristic design. Yet, beneath the excitement lies a debate: Is upgrading worth the financial strain, or is it just another chase for social approval?
This very question mirrors the ongoing clash between BLord and VeryDarkMan (VDM)—a cultural war about wealth, lifestyle, and authenticity. While the iPhone debate concerns gadgets, the feud between these two internet heavyweights highlights how society views upgrades, progress, and the cost of living beyond one’s means.
The Pros of Upgrading
Owning an iPhone 17 Pro Max certainly has its advantages:
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Cutting-edge performance: Lightning-fast processors, next-level AI tools, and unmatched camera quality.
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Global status symbol: It remains a cultural badge of success, often linked with influence and affluence.
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Long-term functionality: Apple’s latest phones are designed to stay relevant with updates for years.
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Business edge: For content creators, entrepreneurs, and influencers, having the latest tech can enhance credibility and output quality.
Much like BLord’s argument in his fight with VDM—where he insists that flaunting success and new possessions inspires others—the iPhone 17 Pro Max symbolizes aspiration. Supporters argue it pushes young people to aim higher.
The Cons and the Risks
However, upgrading is not without consequences:
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Financial burden: Jumping from a budget-friendly XR to a luxury-priced 17 Pro Max could strain finances.
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Peer pressure trap: Many upgrade not out of need, but to impress peers—a dangerous cycle.
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Security concerns: Flashing the latest device can make users a target for theft.
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Minimal real-life differences: Beyond a few advanced features, the XR still performs basic tasks well—so the upgrade may not be essential.
This aligns with VDM’s central criticism of BLord: the idea that flashy upgrades without accountability can mislead youths. Just like some Nigerians stretch their finances to buy iPhones they can barely afford, VDM warns that celebrating unchecked wealth or status symbols creates dangerous illusions.
Beyond Phones—The Bigger Picture
Whether it’s moving from an iPhone XR to a 17 Pro Max, or choosing between the lifestyles preached by BLord and VeryDarkMan, the real conversation is about balance.
Pros of upgrading or chasing success (BLord’s view):
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Motivates ambition.
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Creates visibility and influence.
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Opens new doors in business and networking.
Cons of overindulgence (VDM’s warning):
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Encourages unnecessary financial strain.
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Fuels shallow definitions of success.
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Distracts from building sustainable wealth and character.
In the end, the decision to upgrade—or to embrace a certain lifestyle—rests on personal priorities. Is it about practical improvement and genuine growth, or simply about optics and clout?
The iPhone debate, much like the BLord vs. VDM feud, forces Nigerians to confront the same question: Are we chasing value, or just appearances?
