​Being the dominant partner…

Do you like to take charge of every situation in your relationship? You love to follow the policy of ‘it’s either my way or the highway’? Or you hate it when your boyfriend plans something without seeking your permission first? A relationship requires continuous adjustments from both the sides, and dominating a partner all the time can be a recipe of disaster. In case you feel you might be a controlling girlfriend, here are a few signs to confirm your doubt and try to correct these habits…<br></p>

When he’s going out with his friends

Whether it is going out for coffee, drinks, bowling or shopping, you expect him to seek your permission before finalising any plans with his friends. In fact, there is an unsaid rule in your relationship where he needs to ask for your approval before doing anything. And if he does not, you lose your temper within seconds and end up fighting with him.<br></p>

The apology game

​The apology game
It is difficult for you to accept your own mistakes. You feel you are always right, and the word ‘sorry’ does not exist in your dictionary. At the end of any fight, he’s the one who ends up apologising even though he’s not at fault. Beware, such attitude takes a relationship nowhere.
​There’s no personal space
You don’t mind checking his cell phone and reading his chats without asking him. If he’s willing to spend some me-time, you ask him to get some silly jobs done first. And when he is catching up with his friend over a call, you don’t think twice before interrupting him.<br></p>

Finances

​Finances
Whether it’s his or your money, you like to decide how every penny is spent. You expect him to ask you before purchasing anything. And it takes no time for you to turn crazy if you discover he has made any unnecessary expenditure without informing you.

The entertainment factor

​The entertainment factor
It has to be a rom-com over an action flick, always. Whenever you are watching television together, the remote is in your hands. For you, all the action movies have the same plot. And what if he tries to argue? You blatantly call him selfish, and put the blame on him for not caring for your feelings

​The boyfriend duties

​The boyfriend duties
There is a set of duties that he cannot escape. For instance, he must carry all the shopping bags, fix the broken hair dryer and take your pet for a walk. Most importantly, all these duties must be done on weekends as well.

What about the bedroom

​What about the bedroom
It’s your call whether you guys are going to sleep or have sex tonight. The day he drops a hint for having some fun at night, you discard it by saying you’re tired. Most importantly, you decide (or command) the positions and foreplay moves as per your pleasure.